Provincetown, Massachusetts
Race Point: The Lighthouse Night I Kept Saving for Later
Race Point Lighthouse remains one of the clearest regrets from all my years of lighthouse travel. I visited the outer end of Cape Cod many times and checked out Race Point more than once. I knew that overnight stays were available in the restored keeper’s buildings, becaused I toured it many times, and every time I thought the same thing: someday I would come back and spend the night. I even joined the "Friends of..." group for several years.
It seemed so close and so achievable that there was never any urgency. Cape Cod was familiar. Provincetown was a place I always visited again and again. I assumed there would always be another summer, another weekend, and another chance to make the reservation. That is often how we postpone the experiences nearest to us—not because they matter less, but because we mistakenly believe they will always remain available.
I can still imagine what that night would have been like: traveling across the dunes, arriving at the isolated station, watching the day visitors disappear, and waking before sunrise with sand and ocean surrounding the keeper’s house. Race Point is located within the Cape Cod National Seashore, and its restored accommodations make it possible to experience the place as more than a daytime landmark.
The regret is sharper because I did stay at both California lighthouse hostels. I know how different a lighthouse feels after dark, when the parking lot empties and the coast becomes quiet. I am deeply grateful that I took those opportunities in California. But Race Point reminds me not to assume that 'someday' is a plan. Had I treated it with the same urgency, it might now be one of my favorite overnight memories. Maybe I'll get back there yet!